Archive for May, 2009

Home is…


2009
05.30

Where I don’t have to constantly chant in my head “keep right, keep right” when driving

Where I don’t have to ask for “no meat” just say, vegetarian

Where I don’t have to worry about credit scores, just show my “three months’ payslip”

Where all buildings don’t look alike

Where I hear a familiar language when I step out

Where silence is the exception

Where I can call out  ”Auto” on the streets and go wherever I like

Where I don’t have to search for something edible on the menu when I go out to eat

Where I can stop someone on the street to ask for directions and not have to carry a GPS

Where Upma for breakfast is what’s normal and bread is for “emergencies”

Where I am not worried that I can’t afford to fall sick or have a tooth ache or break my glasses

Where I see familiar faces and smell familiar smells when I go to the mall

Where I know where I am

Where my accent is not out of place

Where business casual means salwar kameez and formal means trousers that are not jeans

Where I can stop by the road-side to buy anything from food to balloons to pirated novels

Where I can strike up a conversation with the person next to me on the bus

Where the radio plays a familiar tune

Where the grocery store is called the super market and there is a kirana store wherever I go

Where I can wear a sari whenever I like

Where there are no tabloids by the checkout counter

Where I don’t have to generate 1000 pounds of garbage a year

Where I can pile up all recyclables and sell them to the paper wallah 

Where there are no ice storms

Where addresses are skewed and I can navigate through a maze

Where there is an istri wallah and a maid and a cook and a driver and I am happy to be helping them support their families

Where I am not a legal or authorized alien

Where I don’t have to be friends with everyone Indian because everyone around is Indian

Where I see change happen everyday

Where I belong…

My New Twitter


2009
05.29

Twitter is too creepy (sorry all Twitterers). But I like the idea of giving random, minute by minute updates to people in my life so I use my status message on gtalk to do that. All those who want to know when the Avakaya has arrived, when I crave idli, when I read something random or want to be hit with other useless trivia about me please add me on gchat.

For a spoof on Twitter, check out the current series of B.C. cartoons here.

We Meet, We Part. Only to Meet Again…


2009
05.25

It’s hard to be in a long distance relationship. But it’s even harder to be in a long distance marriage.

The last few weeks, maybe even months, have been a kind of emotional roller coaster for me. The distance seems to have finally hit hard and, as the cliche goes, the last few months are really the hardest. A lot of that reflects on my mood, there seems to be a “Pyar Hame Kis Mod Pe Le Aaya” kind of meloncholy to me now. I am sure it’s a phase I’ll snap out of soon enough. But till then, please just hang around the archives!

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